The big spender is part of an undercover assignment; don’t get attached.
Key insights
The big spender is part of an undercover assignment; don’t get attached.。Rob the rich to help the poor and uphold justice in heaven’s name., treat the big spender as a client rather than someone to depend on.Be a platform, not someone who depends on others., become the big sister.
6.1 The undercover mindset
The right mindset
- What is a top donor?
- The target
- The undercover mission
- Don't catch feelings
- A work necessity
- Mindset:
- Rob from the rich to help the poor
- Act in the name of justice
- A top donor's money isn't clean
- It’s only right to make money from him.
6.2 The danger of meeting in person
Why you can’t meet
- It falls apart when exposed:
- Lose your air of mystery
- You could be deceived
- It could be dangerous
- Your earning potential gets capped
- Lose the initiative
- The right approach:
- Stay mysterious
- Feed their fantasies
- Interact without meeting in person
- Protecting yourself
6.3 Be a platform
Don’t be dependent
- Wrong:
- Go weak in the knees when you meet a top donor
- Run away with a top donor
- Depend on a top donor
- Become a plaything
- Right:
- Treat top donors as clients
- Accumulate resources
- Start an MCN agency
- Have other women make money for you
- Become the leader
Key quotes
- "The big spender is on an undercover mission; you can't get emotionally involved."
- "Rob from the rich to help the poor; carry out justice in Heaven's name."
- "If you meet in person, it’s over; you can’t meet the big spender."
- "Build a platform, don’t be dependent on one."
- "Become the big sister, rather than depending on a big brother."
Practice checklist
- ☐ Cultivate an undercover mindset
- ☐ Don’t meet the big brother; keep an air of mystery
- ☐ Accumulate resources
- ☐ Build a platform rather than depend on someone
- ☐ Become the leader